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Healthy
RELATIONSHIPS are the most
important factors to a balanced life.
An understanding and acceptance of the unique character of each person,
as well as, effective communication,
are among the essential contributors to maintaining successful
relationships.
What makes a relationship solid is
character compatibility with the other person and the ability to understand
and feel comfortable with each other. Sometimes, we can achieve this naturally, without any extra effort.
However, at times, we require time and energy to try to understand others
and build a cooperative relationship. Completing a personal Character
Assessment not only informs us of our unique characters, but also
sensitizes us to the impact character has on our interactions. Equipped
with this knowledge, we are able to improve or maintain successful relations
in all areas of our lives:
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WORK
Communication
skills are highly valued in industry. Understanding the impact of character attributes, tolerance
and persuadability on how people
respond to each other is very important. For instance, if you work
for a boss with low tolerance and high persuadability he will be
inclined to disagree with suggestions from others that are different
from his own thought process when first approached. However, his high
persuadability character trait suggests that if he was approached
later about the same idea he could be persuaded to alter his first
opinion and accept the suggestion. So, instead of getting frustrated
by your bosses tendency to refute your ideas when first presented, you
can be more strategic in communicating with him by allowing him time
to digest your ideas and then present them again for his
consideration.
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HOME
Knowledge of character
can be immensely beneficial to spousal and children relationships.
For example, a character assessment will identify a person's emotional
age, which is often different than biological age. In families, we are quite conscious of age gaps between children,
which can factor in how we relate to each child. However, humans have
both a biological age and an emotional
age. For example, while a child may be fifteen years old,
he or she could have an emotional age of eighteen years. This child
will relate well with older adolescents Understanding this fact
prepares a parent better to handle issues relevant to that child's
choice in friends. Correspondingly, a parent with a biological age of
forty-five and an emotional age of sixteen will find that he or she
relates to teenagers and young adults very well, and vice versa.
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FRIENDS
Having a close circle of friends who can stimulate and challenge
you, and who share the same interests,
passions, or hobbies
, can have a therapeutic effect on our lives. Being aware of each
other's character
dynamism, as well as, our strengths and weaknesses, we can develop
practical strategies on how to communicate
effectively and constructively help and motivate each other to face the challenges of
everyday life.
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